The Refinery Devotion

July 15, 2025

The Cure for Selfishness: Serve the Lord

Scripture:

“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life as a ransom for many.”
— Mark 10:45 (NIV)

Selfishness is at the root of so much brokenness—broken relationships, broken trust, broken priorities. It creeps in when we put our wants above others' needs or our comfort above God's call. The world tells us to chase personal happiness, but Jesus shows us a better way: the cure for selfishness is to serve.

Jesus, the King of all kings, didn’t come to be served. He came to serve. He knelt and washed dirty feet. He fed the hungry. He healed the broken. He laid down His life—not for His own gain, but for ours. If anyone had the right to live for Himself, it was Jesus. And yet, He poured Himself out for the sake of others. That’s the example we’re called to follow.

When we choose to serve the Lord, something supernatural happens—our focus shifts. Our hearts soften. Our eyes open to the needs around us. We begin to see people the way God sees them. Serving Him reminds us that life is not about us—it’s about reflecting His love and bringing His kingdom to earth.

Selfishness can’t survive in a heart that is actively surrendered to God and dedicated to serving others.

Reflection Questions:

1. Where in your life have you allowed selfishness to take root?

2. Who can you serve this week in a practical and selfless way?

3. What area of ministry or need has God been prompting you to say yes to?

A Prayer to Begin Serving:

Lord, I admit that sometimes I live for myself more than I live for You. Thank You for the example of Jesus, who humbled Himself and served with love. Teach me to follow in His footsteps. Help me see others with Your eyes and respond with compassion. May my life be marked by service—not out of obligation, but out of love for You. Use me, Lord, for Your glory. Amen.